Below are the thoughts and process whereby Upper Arlington Lutheran Church disaffiliated with the ELCA. These are shared by the chair of their taskforce, a lay member of the congregation.
PROCESS
The Upper Arlington Lutheran Church (UALC) Church Council voted to create an ELCA Review Committee in September 2009. The committee was charged to develop and recommend a plan to terminate the congregation’s relationship with the ELCA, including a recommendation for affiliation with another Lutheran body, and to consider whether there is any reason why the Lord may want the congregation to remain in the ELCA. The committee made a preliminary oral report in February 2010 and a final written report in March 2010, both to the church council. The church council passed a resolution in early April recommending to the congregation approval of the committee’s recommendations and calling a special congregation meeting in June.
May was devoted to a series of teachings and forums related to the upcoming vote. These included teachings by the senior pastor on the authority of scripture and on human sexuality. The ELCA Review Committee made a report to the congregation. All pastors and community leaders shared with the congregation their views on the issue. In addition, open forums were held to answer questions related to the vote from congregation members.
Procedures for the June vote were carefully developed, approved by the church council and adopted by the Congregation. This was done to make sure the meeting was conducted in a manner that would be pleasing to the Lord.
After the period of consultation with the Synod Bishop, a second series of teachings and forums were held in preparation for the second vote in October 2010. Some of these were a reprise of those leading to the first vote. New forums focused on the North American Lutheran Church and Lutheran Congregations in Mission for Christ were offered since resolutions related to these groups were considered at the second vote. The procedures for the second vote were essentially the same as those for the first vote.
Underlying Elements
A prayerful, deliberative process is important to making a decision to leave the ELCA. The lack of significant acrimony throughout the decision making process was, at least in part, fueled by the fact that the decision was not a knee-jerk reaction made in the heat of the moment. From start to finish, 13 months were invested in the decision process.
It is important to be forward looking throughout the process. While past events need to be considered to the extent they help understand how one gets to the present, it is important to not dwell in the past. The past cannot be changed. It is important to live in the present and look forward to the future. In other words, the process must be future oriented.
To facilitate focusing on the future, a guiding principle was that whatever is done must be in the best interest of the life and mission of UALC. This perspective was important since it helped keep the focus on what can be and not on what has been.
A decision to disaffiliate from a denomination is deeply emotional regardless of one’s view of the issue. To reduce the negativeness that can emerge in such a situation, it was stressed at all meetings and forums that everyone needed to be respectful of the beliefs and opinions of others—even when not agreeing with a belief or opinion. Individuals were asked to not applaud, make verbal comments nor make facial expressions to indicate support or lack of support for a particular perspective on the issue. Such actions are disrespectful towards those with differing viewpoints.